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	<title>Comments on: Mom or Dad?</title>
	<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/</link>
	<description>What's next along this river of life?</description>
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		<title>By: The Suzette &#187; Blog Archive &#187; SAHM vs FTWM</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28377</link>
		<author>The Suzette &#187; Blog Archive &#187; SAHM vs FTWM</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2007 05:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28377</guid>
		<description>[...] to be a SAHM too. 3. SweetPea is happy being a PTWM 4. AllThingsPurple choose to be a WAHM 5. Dr. Bernard Chan is both Mom and Dad 6. 5xmom wants the best of both worlds. 7. Simon still dreams of being SAHD 8. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] to be a SAHM too. 3. SweetPea is happy being a PTWM 4. AllThingsPurple choose to be a WAHM 5. Dr. Bernard Chan is both Mom and Dad 6. 5xmom wants the best of both worlds. 7. Simon still dreams of being SAHD 8. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Bernard</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28367</link>
		<author>Bernard</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2007 03:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28367</guid>
		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Eastcoastlife&lt;/strong&gt;, haha.. you've got a POINT there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Eastcoastlife</strong>, haha.. you&#8217;ve got a POINT there.</p>
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		<title>By: eastcoastlife</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28296</link>
		<author>eastcoastlife</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2007 07:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28296</guid>
		<description>Bad people live longer. &lt;i&gt;tio bo?&lt;/i&gt; :)

What thing you thinking last longer? hahaha....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bad people live longer. <i>tio bo?</i> <img src='http://bernardchan.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>What thing you thinking last longer? hahaha&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Bernard</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28237</link>
		<author>Bernard</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jul 2007 15:53:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28237</guid>
		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Eastcoastlife&lt;/strong&gt;, bad people last longer where? 

&lt;strong&gt;Chelsea&lt;/strong&gt;, that depends on your definition of quality of life, doesn't it?

&lt;strong&gt;Helen&lt;/strong&gt;, hi! Welcome here! 100% is true.

&lt;strong&gt;Nyonyapenang&lt;/strong&gt;, yes, true. It's a bit difficult to play good cop-bad cop, though. Unless I'm willing to appear schizophrenic. 

&lt;strong&gt;Judy&lt;/strong&gt;, no la... got grandparents and sok-sok doing a lot.

&lt;strong&gt;Samm&lt;/strong&gt;, gaigai! gaigai! gaigai! Yesssss! 

I think that being at home to help the children grow in a balanced way is a wonderful career.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Eastcoastlife</strong>, bad people last longer where? </p>
<p><strong>Chelsea</strong>, that depends on your definition of quality of life, doesn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p><strong>Helen</strong>, hi! Welcome here! 100% is true.</p>
<p><strong>Nyonyapenang</strong>, yes, true. It&#8217;s a bit difficult to play good cop-bad cop, though. Unless I&#8217;m willing to appear schizophrenic. </p>
<p><strong>Judy</strong>, no la&#8230; got grandparents and sok-sok doing a lot.</p>
<p><strong>Samm</strong>, gaigai! gaigai! gaigai! Yesssss! </p>
<p>I think that being at home to help the children grow in a balanced way is a wonderful career.</p>
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		<title>By: Samm</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28191</link>
		<author>Samm</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jul 2007 04:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28191</guid>
		<description>We all play hybrid roles nowadays. I still do most of the upbringing as o opted to stay home and play mom 24/7. As for Dad, he only spells FUN and GAIGAI!!!! Go gaigai until the mother also siao di....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all play hybrid roles nowadays. I still do most of the upbringing as o opted to stay home and play mom 24/7. As for Dad, he only spells FUN and GAIGAI!!!! Go gaigai until the mother also siao di&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Judy Leese</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28111</link>
		<author>Judy Leese</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 13:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28111</guid>
		<description>Even for us mothers who work part time or full time, we still  need our partners to help with disciplining, activities and we need our children's grandparents or aunts and uncles to help with nurturing and babysitting.
You are a 'yiat keok tek' (do it all) and doing a fantastic job.  You are an amazing superdad!
May God bless you and Joseph richly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even for us mothers who work part time or full time, we still  need our partners to help with disciplining, activities and we need our children&#8217;s grandparents or aunts and uncles to help with nurturing and babysitting.<br />
You are a &#8216;yiat keok tek&#8217; (do it all) and doing a fantastic job.  You are an amazing superdad!<br />
May God bless you and Joseph richly.</p>
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		<title>By: nyonyapenang</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28102</link>
		<author>nyonyapenang</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 11:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28102</guid>
		<description>we do wear many hats. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>we do wear many hats. <img src='http://bernardchan.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: helen_H</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28092</link>
		<author>helen_H</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 10:56:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28092</guid>
		<description>I guess nowadays every parent has many roles to play. Bringing up the kids really take 100% effort and time. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess nowadays every parent has many roles to play. Bringing up the kids really take 100% effort and time. <img src='http://bernardchan.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Chelsea</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28089</link>
		<author>Chelsea</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 10:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28089</guid>
		<description>As far as I concern, I would be both to nurture my child to be a better man...mullah wise, I would choose to be a FTWM...so the family could have a better quality life...=)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As far as I concern, I would be both to nurture my child to be a better man&#8230;mullah wise, I would choose to be a FTWM&#8230;so the family could have a better quality life&#8230;=)</p>
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		<title>By: eastcoastlife</title>
		<link>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28087</link>
		<author>eastcoastlife</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 09:41:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://bernardchan.net/2007/07/08/mom-or-dad/#comment-28087</guid>
		<description>Tough having to play both the Mom and Dad role. I snatched my hubby's role from him and became my son's Dad. I teach him all the men's ways, good and bad. hahaha.... Nowadays, bad people last longer. I need a man to take care of me when I'm old. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tough having to play both the Mom and Dad role. I snatched my hubby&#8217;s role from him and became my son&#8217;s Dad. I teach him all the men&#8217;s ways, good and bad. hahaha&#8230;. Nowadays, bad people last longer. I need a man to take care of me when I&#8217;m old. <img src='http://bernardchan.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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